You DON'T have Swag!!!

Ok, I wanna know what is this thing called "swag" and what ever it is, do you think you have it? I mean, do you have to put a name on what you are and how you act? It's fine to be confident, but not cocky. You should not have to put a name on you or how you act. If you come off relaxed and comfortable in your own skin, then you will have no problem getting the interest in the person you want/desire. Mainly what I'm saying is to be yourself cause everyone else is taken. I really do believe that any person would like you to be you instead of trying to be a "baller" or act like you got "swag." Best advice I can give you is this......JUST BE YOURSELF!!!!!

The First Date

Who's decision is it to make when it come to the first date? Does the man take over and call the shots or does the woman? In my opinion, I would make it that the woman make the first call. It's the simple fact that you would want her to feel comfortable as possible. And also it's lets her know that her thoughts are appreciated. If a man takes charge on this, it may make the lady think about you in a different way and not want to go out with you again. Then again, it is always customary for the man to take the reigns on the situation. I always let the woman know that her thoughts are precious to me and I will always ask what she wants to do. Take that to heart men, it's good "preaching" right there, lol.

Binaca, gum or mints?

One that I can't stand is that for a person to think that they have "game" and all they are is a bunch of talk. What makes is worse is when they talk, your nostril hairs get singed. C'mon people (and yes ladies, I'm talking to you too), make sure the breath is tight. Carry that Binaca or gum or mints to make sure that you have that freshness you need in that time of need. You don't want to be labeled "dragon breath" do you? Try to do whatever it takes to make the first meeting the best one there is.

Don't brag on yourself

You know, I listen very carefully to what has been said to a woman and what gets me the most is when some men want to brag on what they have and what they can do for the woman. Fellas, this may be a shock to you, but there is no need to brag on what you can do for her. If everything that I had put up on here is followed, then you don't need to brag on what you got, what you can do, and what you offer. Your actions will speak more than you words. I'm going to be real straight with this. There is NO reason for you to come out your mouth with, "Baby, I can make you scream with delight when I'm done with you." or some other nonsense that will get them in your bed. I really don't think that a woman wants to hear that from you and the only thing that it does is make you look stupid in saying something it. If you are a MAN, then think like one. Stop thinking like a boy cause those are they are the only ones that will say some dumb mess. So you have a choice. Either think like a man or think like a boy. The question is......which one are you?

Do you smell good?

This might be offensive to some, but I think "constructive criticism" is a good thing. How do you think your body odor is when you meet a female for the first time? Do you have it in check or not? As all know, first impressions means a lot and you don't want the lady to go back to her girlfriends and say negative things about you. You always want to set yourself off from everyone else. Make sure your smell game is tight. Now this does not mean that you just throw on some Brut and call it a day. Take time to make yourself better than what she has dealt with before. For me as an example, I usually take at least 45 mins. to make sure that everything about me (and I do mean EVERYTHING), is at top notch. That means show care and attention to places and spots that normally don't get that attention. When the time comes and you and her get close, let her get that smell of you that will make her come back again and again. She's always going to remember that certain smell about you that will always keep you on her mind. Like OutKast says, "So fresh and So Clean." You should make that a motto and live by it.

What to say

Have you ever thought about what to say to a woman? I mean, what is your "pick up line?" Is it this: "Hay Shorty!!!! Lemme holla at cha for a minute!!" Or is it, "What your name is baby?" If I'm not mistaken, I don't think she is your baby and she is definitely not short. Does it ever occur to you that saying the right things to a woman would make you more appealing to her? If I could make a suggestion (which I'm going to do anyway), why don't you try something like this: "Hello, how are you doing? My name is _____. What's yours?" I think something like that is more attractive to her than talking "slang" or even "ghetto." Try it, you may like it.

What NOT to wear

Fellas, I got a question for you. Do you think that a woman likes it when a man( and I use that term loosely from what I see) has his pants sagging down past his butt? I mean c'mon guys. I'm a man and I never have my pants sagging. It's demeaning to me and to the woman. If you want to make a standing impression to a woman, make sure your game is tight. Meaning wear your clothes appropriately. No sagging pants( cause I know they don't wanna see your shorts or underwear), have your hair game tight (meaning comb the naps out) and make sure you are tip top from head to toe. Your first impression to a woman is a lasting one so make it count or you won't ever hear from her again. And I know that some men (including myself) have had that encounter that when you call a female, she is always making up excuses on not going out with you. It's time to change the way you dress fellas. Start doing it NOW!!!!