Do you smell good?

This might be offensive to some, but I think "constructive criticism" is a good thing. How do you think your body odor is when you meet a female for the first time? Do you have it in check or not? As all know, first impressions means a lot and you don't want the lady to go back to her girlfriends and say negative things about you. You always want to set yourself off from everyone else. Make sure your smell game is tight. Now this does not mean that you just throw on some Brut and call it a day. Take time to make yourself better than what she has dealt with before. For me as an example, I usually take at least 45 mins. to make sure that everything about me (and I do mean EVERYTHING), is at top notch. That means show care and attention to places and spots that normally don't get that attention. When the time comes and you and her get close, let her get that smell of you that will make her come back again and again. She's always going to remember that certain smell about you that will always keep you on her mind. Like OutKast says, "So fresh and So Clean." You should make that a motto and live by it.

What to say

Have you ever thought about what to say to a woman? I mean, what is your "pick up line?" Is it this: "Hay Shorty!!!! Lemme holla at cha for a minute!!" Or is it, "What your name is baby?" If I'm not mistaken, I don't think she is your baby and she is definitely not short. Does it ever occur to you that saying the right things to a woman would make you more appealing to her? If I could make a suggestion (which I'm going to do anyway), why don't you try something like this: "Hello, how are you doing? My name is _____. What's yours?" I think something like that is more attractive to her than talking "slang" or even "ghetto." Try it, you may like it.

What NOT to wear

Fellas, I got a question for you. Do you think that a woman likes it when a man( and I use that term loosely from what I see) has his pants sagging down past his butt? I mean c'mon guys. I'm a man and I never have my pants sagging. It's demeaning to me and to the woman. If you want to make a standing impression to a woman, make sure your game is tight. Meaning wear your clothes appropriately. No sagging pants( cause I know they don't wanna see your shorts or underwear), have your hair game tight (meaning comb the naps out) and make sure you are tip top from head to toe. Your first impression to a woman is a lasting one so make it count or you won't ever hear from her again. And I know that some men (including myself) have had that encounter that when you call a female, she is always making up excuses on not going out with you. It's time to change the way you dress fellas. Start doing it NOW!!!!

Get your mind right fellas

Ok fellas, got to put this out there. I wanna know why all these "men" out here think that they got it going on and can get any woman you can. Fellas, I'm gonna tell it like this. YOU AIN'T GOT IT LIKE THAT!!!!! Quit hyping yourself up like that cause it's not cool. You make it bad for the ones that are real and come correct with it. The best thing you can do is be yourself and DON'T FRONT!!!! Women can't stand a man that has to put on a show just to get them to date them or even be interest in them. Most women don't care if you swinging or what kind or car you drive or how much money you got. If they do care about it, then they are no better than you. Mainly what I'm saying is if you keep it simple and straight forward, you will be amazed on how much a woman will respect you more and more. Try it out and see how far it gets you.

What to Do?

Ok, here's a new thing for us men. I know that some to most women will read it too and that's fine. It's good to have two sides of something instead of one. But here's an incident that I was approached with. Had one of my boys (partners, best friend, homie, you know what I mean, lol) come to me and he was heated about this past weekend. Evidently, something had went wrong and he was wondering what he did. This is the skinny. Him and his girl somewhat had a weekend planned and in the midst of it all, the planned got changed and he was thinking, "ok since plans got changed, I can do what I need to get done. He turned around and asked her what time was he going home. She kinda flipped on him and was like, are you ready to go? He said that he had some things to do to get ready for the next day. So she gets upset at him cause (according to her) he "all of a sudden" had things to do. Now mind you that she knew what his weekends were like ever since they started talking. Now my question to you is.....Who was wrong, him or her?